My biggest insecurity had always been what 
pregnancy would do to my body and my self-
image. I had been bullied by family members that if 
I gained weight other than baby weight during 
pregnancy, then I’d just be using pregnancy as an 
excuse to get fat. I was constantly given 
“instructions” on how to avoid unnecessary weight 
gain, stretch marks, how to lose weight fast after a 
baby,  I even had someone say to me “well that 
baby surely doesn’t weigh 40lbs”... after I delivered 
my second child, my body didn’t exactly “bounce 
back.”